Ask HN: How do you find a GTM cofounder for a developer-first infra startup?

I’m a solo technical founder building a curl-first, HTTP-native durable event log (Raft-based).

A recent Show HN got ~90 GitHub stars and a few forks, which helped validate the technical wedge.

I’m now trying to figure out the right way to find a GTM/product-oriented cofounder for an infra / devtools startup (early pilots, narrative, talking to users).

For people who’ve done this before: – what worked or didn’t work? – where did you meet your cofounder? – any red flags to watch for at this stage?

Happy to share more context in comments if helpful.